Everything Is Not About You

Nigerians are a group of very self righteous people.

If you (a woman) wears trousers to church, you're going to church to mislead men and will most definitely end up in hell.

If you're careful about the way you look, then you probably have nothing going on in ur brain and will end up nowhere good.

If you are slim and possibly good looking, then you should be in a pageant or something similar.

If you don't have a 5-6 job and you're a graduate, you're not doing well in life and should be looking for such jobs.

Last year, my BigBro had me about a friend and what he does for a living, and when I said " photography", he had looked at me askance with horror written all over his face and asked,  "did he graduate with a third class right???

 Fellow country people, understand this, E no consign you!!!  If person wan kill himself, na him wahala (i'd seen movie where a man sued a super hero to court for saving him from his suicidal jump) .... if the girl ugly good, if she worworworwor  na her wahala ( ugly n worwor no be the same). If she fine Toh, if she too dey yanga e still no consign you.

Live and let live. Don't tell people what to do and how to do it. Understand that others have passions they might want to consider instead of going for the expected. Everything is not about you, actually nothing is about you.

Give others the chance to make their own mistakes, don't suffocate them with your experience........
And if perchance, you are at the receiving end of this kinda behaviour (probably from people who think they know better) , understand also, that it has nothing to do with you.
On that note, we call it a day...... people have reasons for what they do and you probably will never know about it.
Remember common sense is simple, we are the ones complicating it with lofty ideas.