The Only Friend You Need Is A Sane One

Friendship is an important part of human existence, but often times than not we are let down by people who should be loyal to us.... we've all been there, some more than others (I have had my fair share too). But the truth is, we always go for the wrong kinda friends; what should be friendship goals are forgotten in the pursuit of fine friends,fashionable ones or trendy which is just plain wrong.
MY SANE FRIEND Is one of my life's loves and arguably the sanest,calmest person I know apart from Mr Incredibly Hot ( we'll call her "Black Beauty") and she is the cool teal to my blazing red. Now Black Beauty is not a conventional girl and nothing about our friendship is normal in the sense of the word but she's one person who can forego personal comfort to do something for me, sometimes it's scary how far she can go and since am not the only friend she treats this way, you can easily tell it's who she is. She just started dating this guy I know so the other I asked her......(hey wait a min! this isn't about her love life!!!)
Now where was I? Ehen yes, people are bound to piss you off on a daily basis, more than you can stomach......they will make you go out for the kill and what you need at these times is not a friend who'll hand you a pistol and drive you to the point of murder, nah, instead a friend who'll instead give you reasons why kirikiri will not be good for your complexion or fashion sense (lolest).
The sane friend doesn't hold grudges for eternity and y'all are so in synch, not everything needs a meeting and apology.
I had quarrelled with Black beauty over a shoe, a very cute shoe(our first and only one), and because we are weird individuals, the fight had been through sms sent back and forth  (I mean we try to be original and unorthodox). So for a week, there was a cease contact and my birthday was a day away, afraid that she might be there on my birthday, I sent her a text, "shey you know my birthday is tommorrow? " , she replied, " ofcos, like I can forget! " and that was it. The next we were eating snails and drinking chapman in our 2 man birthday party.

Basically, the sane friend is loyal but strict enough to make you see sense (I have never been able to understand oh yes! Members). A friendship is not made over human hair, makeup or clothes (for females) or girls, clubs or football(for guys). Real friendship will center around self improvement,business ideas, further education and a  friends happiness and upliftment.
The sane friend is the only friend you need, every other type is disposable, and that's the only friend who stays when the chips are down.







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