How To Know Your SoulMate

It is amazing and frankly disturbing how many people go through life looking for soul mates (esp the female species), and then the unending sorrow and disappointments they have to endure in the pursuit of this elusive happiness.
So this is a few steps to help you understand and find your soul mates......:
***..... I am sorry to be the one to burst your ignorant bubble but "THERE ARE NO SOUL MATES". The one person who's the sole custodian of your Utopia sadly, doesn't exist. There's no s/he God kept on the planet for just you who is the only one with whom you can attain perfect bliss . (I know this news is shocking to you,accept my sympathies)
***..... WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU? So in a universe made up of billions of humans,animals and aliens (if perchance you go to Mars or venus) you allowed yourself to be brainwashed into thinking you'll never be happy unless you find "the one"? seriously, what's wrong with you. Why sell yourself so short.
***..... Ever heard of doppelganger? (Well yeah, they exist) For every person on the planet, there are 10 people who looks exactly the same, I mean no difference except in attitude and finger print (have met 2 of mine,true story!).so why are you bent on destroying your self worth because of someone, go and find his/her doppelganger o jare (no time).
***..... God is not so wicked. He can't create all these wonderful people , put them close to you and then, tie your destiny,peace and happiness to one person haba!,  if so there's a high probably of not meeting "the so called one" (give the man some credit please!!!)
***..... Love at First sight only happens in Disney movies. That feeling you get when you meet someone for the fist time in your life and intuitively knows this is the person you'll spend the rest of your life with, that feeling that makes you trust a perfect stranger with all you have? Yes, that feeling, well, sorry it doesn't exist. In fact, if you feel like that, run for your life, you're either about to be duped or worst still it can get you killed.
The truth is this, You can mate with any soul you want; you don't need signs in the stars for that, you'll like some people more than others; there's nothing wrong with that either but happiness and love is a decision you make..... there can be happiness in your life only when you want it to........
So, instead of waiting for your soul mate, why not decide to be happy and thereby attract souls you can mate with and choose the best amongst them because the only way to know your Soul mate is by CHOICE........